It’s Time To Think About Christmas Gifts: Be A Good Scout (Mike Nalbone)

The holiday season comes and goes so quickly that it is easy to
be caught off guard. Think like a Boy Scout & “Be Prepared” this
year.

All too often we find ourselves unprepared for Christmas Day
when we have known all along that it is where it always is,
neatly nestled between Thanksgiving and New Years, during the
last week of December. It always seems though, that we forget
someone or something until the last minute and end up rushing
around with all of the other crazy busy people on Christmas Eve.

There is an easy way to avoid this though. Account for the
possibilities. What are you likely to forget? Who are you likely
to leave out? Here are a few things you should keep on hand
during the holiday season, whether in your car, the fridge or
cupboard.

While you are doing your Christmas gift shopping, pick up a
bunch of little things to have around as take-away or
hospitality gifts. It could be anything from candy, to small
trinkets or ornaments, or a box of candy. It’s inevitable: an
unexpected person will show up, and it’s best not to be caught
empty-handed.

Keep the refrigerator stocked with small dessert items or snack
trays. This is good for when you are doing your holiday
visiting. This way you can bring something with you to each
place that you visit during your Christmas week. Stuff like
apple pie or ‘veggie’ platters are great, because they can be
used pretty much anywhere that there’s a gathering of people.

Stash a couple bottles of wine in your car (unopened of course).
You could even save a few bucks by buying a case or two at once.
Some retailers will even offer a discount for a mixed case of
different brands or types. Keep the wine in your trunk in case
of last minute visiting hours. That way you are not running
around like a nut at the last minute trying to find a liquor
store that’s open.

Don’t buy individual Christmas cards for each of your
co-workers. Buy a big box of cards at once and keep them in your
car or briefcase. When you’re dealing with a large amount of
people such as at the office, it’s easy to forget someone. Keep
cards handy so you can correct any oversights before it seems
like a slight.

Be a good Scout, stay prepared, and your holiday season will run
more smoothly this year.

Mike Nalbone is the webmaster at
http://www.ChristmasGiftOfTheMonth.com which offers unique,
memorable Christmas gift ideas for everyone on your list.

Elementary School Fundraisers Are No Different From Others (Peter Crump)

If you are thinking of elementary school fundraisers there are
many things to choose from. There are many companies willing to
provide you with items to sell and they usually do this at a
reasonable rate so you can walk away with a nice profit at the
end of the day. The elementary school fundraisers are usually
left up to the moms of the kids to get these things together. To
have your fundraiser you will have to decide on what product you
want to sell.

There is not much difference between elementary school
fundraisers than with middle school fundraisers or high school
fundraisers. The bottom line is that the school needs money for
various reasons, but the product you choose may have to differ
from elementary to high school. Another factor is that you may
get a lot more help in the middle school fundraisers than what
you would verses the elementary. With the lower grades, there
may be a added problem of closely watching over the kids.
Whatever the grade level, elementary, middle or high school
fundraisers should be fun for anyone that participates.

You can choose a tried and true product or choose something that
is new wave. Just keep in mind there is always a chance with a
new wave product, your elementary school fundraisers may not be
as successful as with a product that you know for sure is going
to sell. It is best to research the product you choose before
you purchase it. This will insure that your middle or high
school fundraiser will be popular with the people that purchase
it. It is a good idea to make sure that the product you choose
for your school fundraiser is of good quality there may be
another time you will have to do this all over again. You have
to give a good product for the donations to your fundraisers
whether it is elementary or high school fundraisers.

If your elementary school fund raisers are too much for you then
get professional help. Professional fund raisers will guide you
through the process of how to make either your middle school
fund raisers or high school fund raisers a huge success. Don

Get back in shape after the birth of your baby – a gentle 10 point plan (Janice Elizabeth Small)

1.Be especially kind to yourself in the first weeks after your
baby is born. Your body has gone through huge changes and it’s
unrealistic to expect that you can snap back into your old shape
straight away. Unrealistic expectations sets you up for failure
and disappointment, but you CAN get your figure back if you are
patient and take it one step at a time.

2.Forget drastic dieting and treat your body to healthy
nourishing food and gentle exercise to get back in shape. You
will naturally lose some weight during the first few weeks as
your uterus shrinks. Breast feeding alone will allow you to lose
weight at 1lb a week if you eat normally and healthily as it
uses up 500 calories a day, but you do need to eat enough so
that your milk does not dry up. Plan on losing the remainder at
a gentle pace.

3.Your tummy will look very sad after the birth, flabby and
saggy. Don’t worry you can soon get things looking good again.
Do all the post-natal exercises and gentle exercise recommended
by your health-care professionals during the first 6 weeks to
get your tummy back in shape. After that check with them that it
is Ok if you want to embark on a more strenuous exercise
routine. Once your doctor says its OK to exercise, one of the
best ways to retighten your muscles is a simple yoga move. Stand
with your feet apart, hands on thighs. Breathe out fully and
then pull your tummy muscles in and up as hard as you can,
holding for a count of 10. If you do this a few times a day
before breakfast you’ll soon see results. Don’t do this during
pregnancy.

4.The first few weeks with your baby are precious and not the
time to start injuring yourself by doing too much too soon.
Whatever you decide to do, don’t go mad in the first week you’re
allowed to exercise normally. Build up gradually as if you’d not
exercised before.

5.If you are not able to get back to the gym or to do whatever
activity you used to do now that you have a baby to care for,
investigate home-exercise programs and videos you can do while
your baby sleeps or organise your partner or friend to watch
your baby for a short time while you exercise. You will need to
be a bit more resourceful and determined to fit in your exercise
but you can find a way if you really want to.

6.Walking with your baby is always great

Pros and Cons of Online Relationships (Kent Pinkerton)

Modern technology hasn

Don’t Outsmart Yourself When Selling Your Home (Sameer Panjwani)

There are always homes that struggle to sell. You may have a
very good home in a very good location but still find it
difficult to sell. Well, there is always a reason. Here are some
common reasons why such homes don

Spending Time With Your Baby – Making The Most Of Joy. (Roy Thomsitt)

When you first bring home your Bouncing New Baby, you will
surely feel you want to watch over her and be with her much of
the time, especially if you are a first time parent. Newborn
babies are fascinating even if they are not yours; when they are
your own, that special feeling takes off into the stratosphere.
You may feel tempted to hold them, watch them and chat to them
the whole time; even when they are asleep you will enjoy
standing silently over them and observe them in their slumbers.

Those first few days are a magical time, but then a
transformation may take place. For the first few nights, the
night feed may be a novelty, and you may even feel “great, she’s
awake, I can see her again”. But then sleep interruption may
start to irritate you rather than be a signal for pleasure;
tiredness begins to take a hold as your sleep is disturbed so
often. Night feeds, cholic, bringing up her milk; all can
contribute to an interrupted night. Insufficient sleep mixed
with aggravation can start to eat away at that feeling of wonder
you had when your baby first came home.

Your baby has not changed; but you have. She is the same
gorgeous baby you brought home from hospital. Her simple life is
evolving only very slowly to her; it is yours that is changing
most rapidly. Those rapid changes, maybe mixed with a new level
of tiredness you have not felt before, represent the first
exertion of pressure on that very special relationship – you and
your baby.

Then there is day time. The old day to day pressures are still
there; the need to rush around to the shops, worrying about
money, wondering how to deal with work, job and baby; the car
not starting, the leak in the pipe under the sink, the washing
machine seizing up under the constant use. The days spent
wishing you could get a good night’s sleep, wishing you were
back at work earning more money, and being with your work
colleagues. The time you spend thinking: “where’s my life gone?
I have no control anymore. That baby is my jailer in the day
time and tormentor at night.”

Stop! That is a train of thought you must either not board, or
at least get off at the first station. It is a train fuelled by
self pity, and heading down the track to unhappiness for you,
your partner, and your baby. You are the only one who controls
your life; you choose between the track to contentment and joy,
or to discontent and misery.

Remember, that baby loves you more than anyone else ever has,
unless you have had a baby before. Her devotion, her admiration,
and her dependence are total. It is for you to decide whether
that is something to cause resentment in you, or the
overwhelming joy that it should. That little miracle of a baby
is the biggest responsibility you have ever had, but she can
also be the source of the greatest pleasure and joy.

Compare your baby’s devotion with your work colleagues you miss;
in 10 years time you will probably have lost contact with most
or all of them. Your workplace is like a busy junction where
people cross over. Your work? If you are employed, your bosses
will ditch you as soon as they need to if they see a “better”
alternative. Your car, your washing machine, your leaking pipe;
do you really think they are important compared to that unique
and potentially wonderful relationship that is in your arms, the
relationship with your baby?

You make the choices; you take the actions. You have experienced
in the first few days with baby at home that there can be sheer
joy and excitement; wonderment and appreciation. The baby loves
you to bits; you can love her to bits too, and put the exterior
trivia in their rightful place. Or, the baby loves you to bits
and you can wallow in resentment because she’s interrupting your
life, demanding attention when you have a leaking pipe or a car
that won’t start.

In black and white, on paper, it’s a simple choice; but how can
you make that choice and achieve the right balance in your life?
Think about it quietly for a while; somewhere on your own. Think
of the pleasure the baby gives you in those precious moments
when you do not feel stressed. Then, make a conscious decision
to perpetuate those moments; to make each moment you have with
your baby, infant and child a moment when you and she are there
simply for each other.

As your baby grows, there will be countless moments of
development that can bring you a lot of pleasure and pride;
learning to walk, getting out of her crib, her kisses and
cuddles, her first word and every new word thereafter; her
expressions, mimicry, her laughter and her first attempt to
dance to the music on the radio; her attempts to control and
manipulate you, and learning to use her charm to get her own
way. All can be moments of intense pleasure, if you allow them
to be.

Such developments you can allow to merge into the noisy
background of life’s trivia, and miss the joy they can bring
you. In so doing you are increasing the chances of an unhappy
baby, and an unhappy you. Or, you can make each moment you spend
with your baby one for you to enjoy to the full, shutting out
life’s trivia for those times you are sharing with your
offspring. In so doing you would increase the chances of a happy
baby and a happy you.

You make the choices; you take the actions. For your own sake
and the baby’s, spend as much time with your baby as you can,
and set out to enjoy it to the full. Shut out the trivia that
are trying to spoil your unique relationship, and your life will
be considerably better for it.

It is not always possible, but try to organise the trivia around
your time with baby. The more you give her precedence, and
willingly, the more happy you will both be. Enjoy every single
moment of watching her development. It is something that cannot
be repeated.

What Are The Best Fundraising Strategies To Use? (Peter Crump)

Fundraising strategies are as numerous as the funds that will
come in when they are in place. There are so many different
fundraising strategies that you will be hard pressed to choose
the one that

New baby (Dakota Caudilla)

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Enjoy Christmas by Simplifying (Janie Schaeffer)

Is there such a thing as an enjoyable Christmas holiday? A
holiday when you aren

The Secret, Unconscious Game Children and Parents Play Where No One Wins! (MaryLynne White)

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